‘Do Korean men like dark skin?’ | Life Talk (7)

‘Do Korean men like dark skin?’ | Life Talk (7)

ABOUT VIDEO: I am continuously asked whether or not Korean men are attracted to dark skinned women. I do understand the curiosity, but I don’t understand how obsessed some girls are about the outcome. When girls say that they do not want to come to Korea because people will not find them pretty, it definitely boggles my mind. I hate it. Ladies, do not let anyone dictate or determine your beauty. That is only for you to define yourself. If someone does not agree then both you and them should simply keep it moving. Let me know what your thoughts on this question is in the comment section below.

Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/trishjluv
Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/trishjluv
Ask FM: http://www.ask.fm/trishjluv
Blog: http://www.trishjluv.blogspot.com
BUSINESS E-MAIL: trishjluvv@gmail.com (please business inquiries only. All other e-mails will be discarded).

COPYRIGHT: Please do not use this video or any parts of this video without permission of the content owner. If permission is given to use this video, please give proper credit to the original owner, Trishjluv. Thanks.


Share this post

Comments (35)

  • abdul majeed Reply

    YEP BTS IS!!!!!

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • ashnburt11 Reply

    Men like pussy
    Some like companions
    Some like both

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Maisha Zarin Anan Reply

    I love the way you speak!

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • MmM ZZzzzp Reply

    You didn't answer the question.

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Kim Thomas Reply

    Trish, please do me a favor. I will answer you all your questions about Korea and Korean culture. If you agree that my comments or explanations are convincing, please shoot a video explaining why it was built or designed this way in Korea.

    1. About this video… please look around boys and girls dating in Seoul. Not all pretty and good looking girls are dating with handsome boys, and not all handsome boys are dating with good looking and gorgeous girls. Most young girls forget one thing very important. Boys like pretty girls… but that is usually at the beginning of their date or relationship. The boy soon gets blinded/bored and cannot see how his girl friend is pretty or gorgeous, then he begins to turn his eyes to other girls.

    Likewise, at the begining, she may look homely and not attractive at all, but as time goes on, if she is friendly, smart, witty, even that wise, he soon notice how beautiful she is… and he gradually begin to fall in her. He begins to realize how much she is pretty and attractive when he finds she left.

    He will surely call her saying "Hi Jane, how are you doing? Would you like to have a tea with me?" That is the very sign that he is missing her badly, because a boy seldom or never ring a girl if he is not interested in her.

    Make him feel your absence, if he calls you, he is 100% interested in you. If not, just forget it. You can never win him. Korean boy never ever ring a girl if he is not interested in her. And if he ringed you… he must have drawn out all his courage, so at this moment, you have to be wise. If you say "no" to him, some boys may call you again, but quite some Korean boys will simply give up.

    Instead, tell him, "I'd love to, but I am busy with my mom… or I have previous engagement with my roommate, etc. but can I take raincheck, what about the day after tomorrow?" Don't say "yes" to him at his first call.

    I guess my first daugther is of your age.

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • TEEV Reply

    Somebody could have been asking if Korean men like black women to learn or study they're culture. It doesn't have to mean the person asking this is self-concious……

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Jin x Jimin BTS Reply

    I'm 12 years old. And I only like Koreans. I'm not generally Korean myself, but I prefer to be around Koreans because I feel more safe and secure around them. I usually see these types of videos because It upsets me to find out that.. I can't be friends with Koreans because I'm white or I'm not "Pretty" I usually see Chinese around my country which is extremely rare. And anytime I have that opportunity I have a huge smile on my face and I start waving to the Chinese person. I'd love to one day just to have a chat with a Chinese or Korean person or just to say Hello to them or have them notice me.

    I really hope I get to do that.. It's one of my dreams to have a best friend who is Korean or Chinese.

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Love Leonard Reply

    i just wanna know what people darkskin have experience i dont care if people dont like me i wanna know what they say so i can memorize it and drop kick someone as soon as i hear them

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Yvette Ayase Reply

    She said that! Thank you Trish!

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • sumayo abdi Reply

    thanks for boosting my confidence. your fellow African girl

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Orlando Cruz Reply

    I agreed

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • KpopManiac4Life Reply

    i wanted to know the korean guys perspective on dark skinned ppl..not self love

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Faith Peteru Reply

    So do they like dark skinned girls or not? lol

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Just2Intense Reply

    She never did answer the question do Korean men like dark skin females?  So I'll answer it…….NO.  Asians are extremely colorstruck, they have multiple cosmetic lines for skin bleaching.  Not to mention AA women have never been attracted to Asians in the 1st place, so Asian males & AA women is like water & oil……..they don't mix.

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Yes Honey Yes Reply

    I mean, the question isn't always based on self esteem, and when it is, for a darker skinned girl, it's an understandable concern. First off I hate that question as well, things like what do Korean guys like? Like fuck is you? But understand too that dark skin is a different kind of concern. Sometimes it isn't about self esteem, this is common for many black women, you have to wonder, does this person like black girls? There are too many people who say yea I don't like black girls or dark skinned girls as a whole, many black women have to deal with that, and ask themselves hmmm, does this guy like black girls. I think it's very valid in a sense to worry about how you'll be perceived and doesn't always necessarily have to do with age. We can also argue that experience permits a darker skinned person to ask those questions because they've experienced that negativity while trying to date as well. Ijs, I get where the concern comes from, I resonate personally. If you're into dating esp.

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Sonni UsaChan Reply

    Feeling this Tip!!! 100%

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Jazzy115 Reply

    I think questions like that happen a lot because of how the media portrays dark skin. Like its not that I think my skin is bad or that I need someone to validate it. But sometimes I wonder with even black guys because people are sadly brain washed by western media to believe light is better. You don't hear those types of questions from white women and theres a reason for that too. It not because their self esteem is higher than black women its because they've always been put on a pedestal that they've never had to question rather or not someone wouldn't like them for their skin.

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • yeebae Reply


    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • SeriouslyStephany Reply

    Totally agree! And nice outro btw!

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Musa Fighting! Reply

    Yes I agree fully, girls need to come to the UNDERSTANDING that you will never be everyone's cup of coffee. The mere fact that all girls are not the same it goes with guys too. On that note alone it's realistically impossible to be everything people want you to be. So be you, be happy in your skin and the right type of person will notice you.

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Ina-art Reply

    Such a good response ///v///~
    I struggle very much with self esteem and love to see woman who are happy with themselves and have confidence! I think it takes a very strong woman to feel confident about her look! Keep rockin' on~ <3

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • KTARITARI ケむタăƒȘタăƒȘ Reply

    i love your eye makeup in this video! yeah, i've seen lots of people asking do xyz men like Black women? type questions which are unfortunate. if someone likes you good, and if not, who are they? keep it moving! there's much more to life than if random korean guys like Black women. any man with sense who sees a beautiful woman won't care and will know she's beautiful and will talk to her.

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Scuzzy02 Reply

    Good tip, I thought this was going to be a more general being a dark skin women type of thing, but yeah those questions you received are sad. No one should worry if men like the way you look, they ain't you! It's all about you loving how you look and if someone comes along and appreciates that well that's nice too. There use to be a few of these "Do men like.." things for natural hair when the natural hair started becoming a big thing. And I remember being like why would I even care what someone thinks about that….it's like my hair……lol Great tip!

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Key Williams Reply

    Love your makeup ♄

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • caramelash88 Reply

    I agree I hate seeing girls question whether or not Korean men like darker women of color or just dating in Korea…at the end of the day men are men regardless of where they are, some have preferences some don't…some are jerks some aren't, who cares?! as long as YOU are happy with YOU…a man doesn't define your happiness or who YOU are as a woman…plus when people go there its either to go to school or work…so when that question is asked it seems as though you're only going for men or because its a trend…don't do that just do you and be you!! love your vids btw!!

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Farrrdoos Reply

    This question pisses me off. Why should your skin be a problem? and if they hated your skin then why go after a demographic that is racist?

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Cherish Adventure Reply

    Great response!

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • yellowstar234 Reply

    I agree Trish!!!

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • BrittneeHeavenly7 Reply

    And the church said "Amen!"

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Apple Slices Unite Reply

    It's all preference, what is a complete turn off to some, others will find it the only preference for them.

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Jas Coasttocoast Reply

    EXACTLY. Get out of that kdrama anime manga fantasy world in regard to those perfect relationships! You are beautiful just the way you are. Don't let those images block your view of what makes you special.

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • QuadrantBottomHalf Reply

    Men like anything as along as you don't have what we have[down below].

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Ron Reply

    YAAAAAASSSS ! you tell them guuuuuurrrrrrllll lol. Great video 😉

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Nicole Smith Reply

    I've seen those kinds of questions about skin color, and also body size. I like your response 🙂

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am
  • Cutie05 Reply

    Preach it girl!!! l hate questions like this as well. Some people will find you beautiful and some people won't. Everyone has their own idea of what is beautiful. I'm glad you are advising women to stop caring about others approval and live life.

    December 13, 2018 at 3:44 am

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *