Are Black Women just as Colorist as Black Men?

Are Black Women just as Colorist as Black Men?



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  • Rahimah Clement Reply

    My mother is light skin and my dad is dark skin and she use to talk about how pretty my siblings were and I didnโ€™t even make the cut. It could be coloristic and narcissistic personality

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • starfirebb robin Reply

    I wish dark skin black women would move on already ๐Ÿ™„

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Michelle Hendrix Reply

    It's funny how black men do to Black women what whites do to blacks folks as a collective….That's interesting to me๐Ÿค”

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Audri NaturallyMe Reply

    I recently stated on a Facebook post that I only like and date light skin guys or white guys and I've never dated a dark-skinned black man.
    I got drug for 2 weeks straight before I had to turn off the notifications but I refused to delete it…..so why was I attacked for my "PREFERENCE"?๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Niger Congo Reply

    Stop the nonsense the whole black community is engaged in constant colorism. All genders all complexions it is not just dark skin black men. I am not even a dark skin black man. So I am not trying to defend them. I just know the whole black community are colorist at differing degrees. They are mostly colorist from the darkest black man to the lightest black man. From the darkest black woman to the lightest black woman. Until you want to be honest about this you are not going get most dark skin black men to care about this issue enough to change. Them same dark skin black men watched their black mothers check behind the baby's ears to see how light the baby was going be. They went through the 90,s when lightskin men were in. Then dark skin men were back in fashion. Just because black women are not openly vocal about their colorism like some black men are means nothing other than women hide the truth better than men. You don't want to fix colorism you just want revenge for the black men that rejected dark skin women. Be honest and get off your moral high horses. Women don't fix problems like this they only gossip, try to hurt the feelings of those they dislike and display passive aggressive angry look in the comment section if you don't believe me. Which only brings out the males with these same feminine qualities. Nothing gets fixed by women it only turns into a colorist gender war. The other races of women are not going fix it either they don't care. So common sense will tell you the men of the other races care even less as it doesn't effect them.
    Only the black man of higher understanding is going to fix this when he decides to build a beauty standard for his people. So if you want to really relegate black man to the trash you will also throw away the only solution you will ever have. If black men don't embrace the love of dark skin black women you pretty much screwed. Jumping the fence won't fix it. White men created colorism they not trying to fix anything they will fix Asian woman issues before they try to fix anything for the black women in general. If anyone is mad at what I said then that means the truth hit you were it hurts. Promoting dark skin women is a great start but nothing changes without the black man actively supporting and loving black women. So throw us away and go play with the white man and find out what white women know already. Just like these black men loving on these white women, are finding out why the white man is so unhappy with white women.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Black Beckie Reply

    no black women aren't colorist enough. the talk and actions aren't even.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • ThickkBeautyy Reply

    I personally prefer light skinned men, always have" most likely always will. And I agree with your points in this vid. Women typically aren't vicious about their prefs. You'd never know that I'm into light brown skinned men, unless you have a convo w me or tried to approach me and directly asked me, whereas black men always have to let their prefs be known, when its not asked and when no one can care half of the time.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Lunar Nature Reply

    . This trying to divide men and women is dumb and anti productive.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Jessa Reply

    Nah, I feel in general men of other races approach us and want to court us more than black men. The collective of black women donโ€™t realize this because well, thy are too busy licking black menโ€™s asses to realize they are WANTED just as they are everywhere else.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • keven cole Reply

    If black women are they do not show it or say like black men do , because they have more options , like being attractive , dark skinned men accuse darkinned women of this to hide their BS

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Salim Kebe Reply

    BW and BM are all crazy! Willy lynch syndrome!

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • first name Reply

    You're very intelligent and keep it too real. Definitely need you in our black community. Thank you Chrissie.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • desertdetroiter Reply

    Black women are colorist as hell. But no, you canโ€™t draw an equivalence not even one bit. And black women ainโ€™t really checking for light skinned brothers like that. Their colorism is favored toward dark skinned men overwhelmingly. But still, black women arenโ€™t that bad compared to black men. Not even close.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Kj Latte Reply

    THEY WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND, EVEN WHEN THEY ACT AS THEY DO, AND IT WILL NEVER BE JUSTIFIED BECAUSE THATS JUST ONE MAJOR THING LET ALONE OUR PRESIDENT IS TRUMP N HE TRYING TO TAKE THE DARK, BROWN, AND IN BETWEEN DOWN, WE HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT OUR OWN KIND BEING RACIST AGAINST US BECAUSE
    OF THE WHITEWASHING THEY HAVE BEEN HYPNOTISE WITH. IM A BEAUTIFUL DARK SKIN WOMAN WHO STRUGGLE WITH I BELIEVE COLORISM BECAUSE IM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE PERSON N HES MY ONLY CHILDS FATHER. HE HAVE 5 KIDS N ALL INCLUDIN HER N SHES BRIGHTER THAN BOTH OF US . BUT HIS SON WHO IS MIX HE WORSHIP N THE OTHER KIDS HE LOVE THEM IK BUT I CAN TELL THEY JUST KIND OF FALL N PLACE. CUZ MY DAUGHTER IS HIS 2ND FAVORITE N I KNO ITS CUZ SHE LIGHT N VERY BEAUTIFUL N TOLD ALOT, NOT TO SAY IM NOT, ITS JUST I CAN FEEL THE VIBES N TELL N HOW HE RESPOND TO THEM , BUT I WONDER IF WE BROKE UP WOULD SHE NOT EVEN B NUMBER N HIS MIND CUZ REALLY ALL HE EVER REFER TO ANYTHING TO IS HIS MIX CHILD, WHICH IS HIS LAST CHILD BEFORE OUR DAUGHTER, N HE DEFENDS HIS MOM . I KNO I SHOULD LEAVE BUT I TRY FOR MY DAUGHTER TO B BIGGER THAN N JUS DO ME N LET HIM B SO HE CAN B N HER LIFE. COLORISM IS VERY REAL N ALIVE N ITS SO REAL THESE DAYS THAT IT IS KIND OF NEXT BEST THING TO MONEY IF U KNO WHAT I MEAN…

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Emmanuel Damour Reply

    Being a dark skin man you gotta be mentally strong!

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Emmanuel Damour Reply

    I was thinking about starting a channel discussing experiencing colorism as a black man but Iโ€™m currently working on other things but when I get the chance Iโ€™ll start one.

    90 percent of my rejections are because of my complexions.

    But I just keep grinding perfecting my craft.

    And I get some play here & there but

    If I was light skin or just not black I think I would get 85%

    of the black women i approach.

    I approached nerdy hood business athletic stuck up shy

    Honestly even ugly women

    Same results.

    But take it from me I deal with colorism even at my job now as an adult.

    Where work at there are mostly Asians and white people.

    Anyways you should focus on bringing black men and women together not saying fuck black men and only show love to black women.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Foy Munlin Reply

    I agree with this very true

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Datsizer Reply

    Women are More colorist At a younger age. Men carry it on until Adulthood. So. I'd say in the Long run Men… short run Women… Let that hurt go Bruh. Lol…

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Bless 2.0 Reply

    I didnโ€™t know being called a colorist was an insult. I do know there is no such thing as equality

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Belizean Bad&Bruja Reply

    We don't make memes about it we don't advertise our preference every 5 min. If anything colorism is contagious and it started with black males

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • robelto burrows Reply

    Ohh Chrissie Chrissie your are such a cry baby

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Keron Smith Reply

    It truth black women disrespect black man too

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • EmeLeo S. Reply

    To answer the title: 100%

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Wells Powell Reply

    In the picture where he said the dark skin one messed it up…do yโ€™all have the dark skinned ones @ cause sheโ€™s stunning

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Ife's Voice Reply

    This video is atrocious, black women have been putting down dark skin black men for so long now I don't know how people can not admit this is the case.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Scarlett James Reply

    I'm brownskinned like janet jacksons complexion and ive always preferres lightskin or non black men,Ill never understand the attraction to darkskin men most darkskin men are unattractive

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • cockney gyal Reply

    women are the most racist ..ive had friends of both sexes and women can turn others against you judged on your appearance…or make you a star…black women hate it when theres no agreement physically… i can say that if you arent completely dumbfounded and your gรจnes differ haters can throw dirt all day but im inherently not much darker than my baby pictures…whoever dont like me or wants to hype up foolishness can go jump off a cliff..
    Mothers like it when the kids favor them..it makes up for all the chores if you look like the father or grandfather that is a problem since their might have been conflict…..and everytime she look at you shes reminded how you sapped away her youth…..

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Tanna_banana Reply

    @chrisse I would love to know how these dark skinned black men mothers, aunts grandmothers and sisters feel about the nasty responses and comments they have about them. Iโ€™m sure someone they love is a dark skinned lady

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • therese fassie Reply

    I prefer my men medium brown.they are just gorgeous.they are right in the middle not light not dark.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Skylar Blue Reply

    I'm biracial and I can honestly say the black race is psychologically messed up. From 4-8th grade I attended a predominately white school. Where I was the one if three black girls in my class. One girl was black and the other was mix also, but with more African features than me. We were definitely isolated and made to feel less than. But for high school I wanted to try something new, so my parents enroll me in a more diverse school. My experience was almost the same. White kids thought I was the "pretty black girl" But still less than them. In the diverse school, I was the "pretty mix girl" who was a tab bit more important than the black girls, but a step lower than the Hispanic pretty girls. I grew up assuming I was prettier than dark skin girls, whether they were cute or not. I always felt like I was better than them, and a lot of them so desperately wanted to be my friend, which added to my ego. Lucky for me around college years, I got extremely interested in African American history, and somewhere along the line I started to change my superiority complex. Skin color doesn't equal beauty. I honestly stay away from colorist black men

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Janet Cousins Reply

    Insecure, envious and racist white and other racial groups are intoxicated with glee when they find black people so tortured, confused and equally insecure about the inherent beauty and value of their own race and colours.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • do bi Reply

    theres a lot of self hate in this world

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • John Doe Reply

    Colorism is real, I have dated one lightskin woman in which she became the mother of my kids but I always was attached to thick dark woman that just how I feel, I am from the south darkskin brother don't dwell on color cause we don't no who is really attracted to us it's like life has taught me to just go with the flow.lol

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • J born sinner Reply

    Yes black women are just as colorist as black men. Light skin and mixed women (to be exact) are just as every bit reverse colorists as dark skin men are colorists. Alot of light skin and mixed women have serious self-hatred issues and don't like light skin mixed men. They disguise this as a preference and swear up and down that it's "just what they like" the same way that dark skin men do. Many light skin women wouldn't date a light skin man to save their mothers life. Now the real question is are these women that mentally ill or are they just that mentally weak (and susceptible to the relentless onslaught of messages/images being continuously drilled into them from the media brainwashing machine)?

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Ashley Norris Reply

    I think what needs to be conveyed is the fact that when a light skin man or a white or non-black man dates loves and marries a dark skin black woman it seems to be more genuine because dark skin black woman are not the status quo. When you look at all cultures the white male's status quo is a tall thin pale woman with blonde hair and blue eyes in other cultures anywhere close to that. Overall black woman have a right to be offended because these men are choosing certain woman because they feel it makes them look better in society. What it comes down to is SOMETIMES you are literally picking a pair of Jordans because they are more popular and they make you "look" a curtain way over shoes that might be more comfortable economical and better for your feet. A man with a healthy mind will choose the woman that loves and cares about him not because he's rich plays ball and she just want to be his arm candy.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Jortal Portal Reply

    But the rejection of light skinned Black men by both light and darks skin women is awesome. I believe Black women are the most racist in America. Yup. I have dated 100% Black women all my life. Ending. Now they're fired. Sick of the baggage and hypocrisy. Aren't nasty to light skin? Or darks skin? You must be kidding.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • officialnamerartist Reply

    Women

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • officialnamerartist Reply

    Light skin men do feel a certain way about being looked over by black womenswear for darskin men we just don't go slandering black women because loyalty is everything .

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Emmanuel Damour Reply

    Yo you are the realest… thank you for being real… Keep it up… btw the colorism is a ugly person problem at the end of the day you look good. You look Good! Period.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Brian White Reply

    To sum this up the best way, Black men are probably more colorist as far choosing a mate, but Black Women are probably more colorist as having types of children.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • โญ Reply

    I think why the few dark skin women prefer light skin men is because of colorist towards her all her life and she has such low self esteem she feels if she lightens her children's look they won't get bullied and when light skin women do it I think it's them trying to prove their blackness "well I'm half black but I still love my brothers"

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • RasMichaEl Yisrael Reply

    I think women are just as colorist, but as a man it would come off as complaining and crying

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • RasMichaEl Yisrael Reply

    I disagree… black women always say lightskin men are soft

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am
  • Live Life Reply

    I used to prefer dark skin men, same with most of my friends but I don't hear to many sisters talking about them now on account of the way they behave. They seriously need an attitude adjustment with their fugly ass personalities. Yep they need to stay swirling, it's fine by me. And I'm light skin black, most of my friends are or biracial. I've noticed these fools tryna pit us all against each other, don't fall for it. I have no issue with my dark skin sisters, I see dark skin men as the problem tbh they need to stop kissing white ass & do more for their people. Weak men are unattractive as shit.

    April 28, 2019 at 11:07 am

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